Wednesday April 26th, 2023
Attention: Premier Tim Houston
Yesterday was Parental Alienation Awareness Day and today is Shared Parenting Day. We have submitted appeals for political action and amendments to the divorce act which have been founded in peer reviewed social science research, and ethics, but these appeals have either fallen on deaf ears or into unwilling hands. So now we present a call to action based on finance.
There is no doubt that Parental Alienation is harming our children and families. It is a form of inter-generational complex trauma that is not dissimilar to what First Nations families have been dealing with from child services. It is both child abuse and Intimate Partner Violence. We know that targeted parents, attempt suicide at a rate of 406.5X higher than the national average.
In Canada, the cost to the economy, of the suicide of a working age adult is $3,100,000.
In Nova Scotia, suicide rates have gone up more than 60% in the last 10 years and grew at the highest rate in the country the decade prior.
2021 data indicates that 142 Nova Scotians took their own lives costing the economy $440,200,000
2022 data indicates that 153 Nova Scotians took their own lives costing the economy $474,300,000
2023 – Q1 Data indicates 35 Nova Scotians took their own lives costing the economy $108,500,000 so far this year.
Over your current 4-year term in office, this will equate to losses to the Nova Scotia economy exceeding $1.8 Billion ($1,829,000,000). You might be saying that not all suicides are by alienated/targeted parents, and you’re right. 25% of the suicides in Nova Scotia which means 148 people in Nova Scotia will die by suicide in your 4-year term in office costing the economy $458,800,000
There are 70,000 alienated parents in Nova Scotia, 108 male suicides and 37 female suicides.
We know that targeted parents and alienated children are diagnosed with serious mental health disorders and are simultaneously costing public health dollars, increasing hospital wait times and reducing our economic output.
Here are some facts to consider:
The courts deny children 50:50 access to both of their parents in more than 85% of cases and award sole custody to the mother. Research shows that 39% of inmates come from single mother homes. Applying those factors means that 198 Nova Scotians currently in custody, grew up without access to their father. Had their father been present, would they currently be in jail? What is going to happen to the children they have?
The cost of incarcerating an individual in Nova Scotia is:
2021 - $319.78 per day or $116,719.70 annually
2022 - $338.97 per day or $123,722.88 annually
2023 - $360.43 per day or $131,556.95 annually
The cost of incarceration rises consistently by 6% year over year. Over your current 4-year term in office, this will equate to expenditures surpassing $26M NS Tax Dollars on the incarceration of individuals who come from single-mother homes, much of which could be prevented by enabling shared parenting legislation and addressing the issue of parental alienation.
What is in question is what to do about parental alienation here in Nova Scotia.
He is what Complex Trauma Canada proposes:
1. Peer Support for targeted parents and families: PA is contributing to Nova Scotia's high rate of suicide. Traditional services do not help. We are prepared to develop and grow a network of peer support groups across Nova Scotia, both in person and online. This will take time, as people have to be trained and resources developed, but peer support could go forward quickly with some funding.
2. Education: Mental Health Professionals, lawyers, judges, police, public health administrators and others need education. For this we propose the combination of continuing professional development, lessons at universities and an annual conference. We also believe that teachers should receive education and we will put on PD day training. These could be ready for the fall.
3. Research: Research NS can fund research into this. They just need direction from the government. We will work with university researchers to complete Parental Alienation and complex trauma research locally. This will build a center of knowledge and excellence locally.
4. Task force: The Province needs a task force to lead this issue. It should be comprised of people who are trained, or experienced, in PA. This should be a cross-departmental, solutions focused approach, with clear goals, and metrics to track solutions. It should look at best-practice solutions to matters from around the world, test tools and drive institutional change. The terms of reference could be prepared, and the task force could start late this Summer or more realistically this fall.
5. Shared equal parenting: the research out of Kentucky, is that the rebuttable presumption of shared equal parenting has cut these cases by over half. This reduces court time and costs, reduces policing, child protection and jails costs too. It allows the worst of these cases to be examined in more detail. This would see a big cost saving and given that over 80% of people support this (and many think we already have shared parenting legislation), it will be strongly supported by Nova Scotians.
6. Treatment: There needs to be local treatment developed and we can work with national and local service providers to provide safe and effective services right here. This is a big reason why judges refuse to act, as they don't believe there is anything that can be done. That is not true.
Given that 1 in 5 people are directly impacted by PA, either as a child, parent, or grandparent, and given that the rates are growing, there is a real and growing need for change to start now. We all know people who are impacted.
These initiatives will result in a net cost savings to our province and one key research component will be to research the cost savings.
It has come to our attention that Parental Alienation is on the radar of this government. Thank you for that. We would like to help find the solutions needed and believe we have unique knowledge and resources to be able to help our government effectively reduce the likelihood and severity of PA cases.
While we don't have the financial resources to action the above items, we would be willing to discuss how they could move forward, and how Complex Trauma Canada can help.
In closing, the most recent data (2017) indicates that the Family Law Industry generates $10.4 billion annually in Canada. Based on per capita data, this means Family Law in Nova Scotia generates $272,480,000 annually, or over your four-year term in office over $1 Billion Dollars CDN ($1,089,920,000) These funds are coming out of the family finances of Nova Scotians and driving a struggling economy further into poverty.
Everyone knows someone who has been divorced and gone through the painful and costly Family Law Process. Many people know a mother or father who has been alienated from their child. Statistics indicate that in your social circle there are many who have traveled this path and paid the price. Complex Trauma Canada highlights these problems, only for the purpose of finding solutions.
Thank you for taking the time to read this and consider these ideas.
We look forward to hearing back from you, and working with you for the best interest of our children and families.
Complex Trauma Canada